An article about the Initiation by Lisa Ommert

[...] You do live in a world, where parents look forward to welcoming a physically healthy baby. (“What does she look like? Is she robust?”) Your parents are also most likely looking forward to having a bright child. (“How smart is she?”) In short, your mental and physical bodies are very appreciated. But, pretty sure, no one welcomed your three other bodies: the emotional (the emotions and feelings), the energetic (the soul, your Being) and the archetypal body (the life forces).

The result is that half of your resources are disregarded, even banished. More than half of your presence and sensations are blocked from coming through and being here.

In contrast, there are rumors that certain African tribes - the Himba - communicate with the Being of a baby even before the mother becomes pregnant. When the mother decides she is ready to receive a baby, the villagers come together and ask the Being what its purpose for being born is, how it will serve the village and what the Being will require in terms of education or support in order to best deliver its services. They even ask the Being to teach the villagers its soul-song so that when the baby is being born they can sing this song to welcome the Being along with the body, mind and heart.

If a Being could have come through all by itself, it would have already done so. But since it has not, what this implies is that conditions that provide the Being with enough respect, honor, recognition, play space, love, and creative companionship so it would be attracted to come into the material plane did not yet exist. [...]